Tuesday, April 19, 2011

How I met my husband

hi kak ida, sy suka ur blog especially ble u cte sal hariz,bout baby things, being a mom,shopping n so on, so, heh,cn u share wit all of us bout your love story? hw u meet ur beloved husband..i'm sure there are many sweets and unforgettable moments right.

I got this question via my formspring some time last week. I didn't quickly reply it. Because I thought, I haven't really share with you how I met my husband. It was really, to me, one of those fairy tales story that I thought only exist in the story book or tv. I've told a few of my friends of how I met my husband, they were all like... "waahh.. it's like one of those hopeless romantic movie!" hahaha..! Actually I can't believe it either! Oh well, anyway, off with the story. eh korang nak tahu tak? Kalau tak mau, sila skip this entry :P

Okay, it all started when I 1st start working at where I am now. That was almost 3 years ago. Back in 2007. When I 1st got interviewed, I requested to be sent to KL as I think there more challenge and wanna try different environment other than Penang (perasan padahal baru nak start keje kan :P) But my Boss insist I stay in Penang and work with him so I agreed.

FYI, I just got off a very bad relationship when I started working. I was depressed and heartbroken. But being offered a job at one of the most well establish firm, has really saved me. I rented a very small room for RM180 per month before I find my own apartment here in Penang. Most of my friends were all in KL and imagine how do I cope with life after studies ALONE! It was painful I have to admit. But life goes on.

Anyway,If you ask me do I believe in love at first sight, my answer is NO. It has to be a few sights before I really fell in love :P

My husband, who then was known as Zul, he just being transferred from KL to Penang on that very year. So he is the new face we've been seeing in the building. My colleague first noticed him as he often walked pass our front door (since our office is in the way to the toilet). And you know la, mula la they were like "hey..ada new guy.. good looking... bla bla bla bla".. but I just ignored (konon tak berminat lah kann). Then I saw him at the cafe eating alone (he always does) and sitting right in front of the cafe entrance. So you will notice him when you entered the door. You won't miss it!

So as the day passed, we keep bumping each other at the cafe but never spoken. Just *ehem* stared at each other :P Until one day, I was about to go back to my office through the staircase, suddenly he was right behind me. And it is really awkward when a guy behind your back so I turned around and said my 1st few words to him

" are you new here? Tak pernah nampak pon?"

hehehe.. okay so I yang 1st tegor dia. Tak salah kan? :P


{zaman phak thor}

I remember it was sometime in November 2007, and few months later, he said he wanted to meet my parents, and I was like, hah? what for?? (lagi mau tanya kan) and we got engaged on February 2008. That was like 3-4 months after we've known each other.

When I told my girls about the news, they were all quite surprise with my decision. They keep asking am I sure about this. I was not. But I know, he is the one. How do I know? Well, I just knew :)


{engagement}

You know during the time we were being engaged, we have been tested with a lot of things and there are moments when I had doubt about the relationship. But I guess, it is fated and Allah had made plans for both of us.

We got married 6 months after our engagement, which was in August 2008. And alhamdulillah, 3 years later, we are now blessed with 1 kid and 1 on its way :)


{solemnization}

Looking at the time line from the day we've met and got married, it didn't take us long to know each other and decided to get married :)

Kesimpulan nyer adik-adik, jangan main-main bercinta kat sekolah. Belajar dulu. Dah kerja nanti insyallah jumpa orang baik-baik that can take care of you and your family. :) Pesanan dari kak Ida yer...

So I guess that's it, I hope I have answer your question in this special entry made for you :) Enjoy

27 comments:

yaNa MaLeK said...

ohhh so sweet how u and ur husband met :) cm cite novel..hehehe
btol kan kadang-kadang orang cakap bercinta bagai nak rak but/if xkesampaian nanti at last u met someone else yang memang ditentukan oleh ALLAH..

||kiena|| said...

hehehe klu dah jodoh cepat jer! tak yah bercinta lama2 pon jadi! uhuk uhuk thru the same experience =P heeee but me lagi short notice kot! 1bulan 10hari to wedd from engagement day which also unexpected e-day! hampeh xde bju lip lap nk sarung cincin tunang mase tuh =P

rizaros said...

wah2 menarik kak.. hehhee..tapi sy dah abis blaja yer bru kahwin :P kak due bile??

-ilyannur- said...

sweet nya! tp mmg btol lah, pengajaran kepada sy gak, becinta bagai nk rak, tapi endingnya x jadi. huhu. harap2 la sy bleh jumpa yg btol2 jodoh, malas dh nk becinta lama2 ni.

Suzie said...

kalo dah jodoh tu kenal 3-4bln pun jadi..hehe..yg penting kesungguhan dia nak jadikan kita isteri sbb i pun lalui a few pengalaman yg pahit n once jumpa yg btl2 nak bagi komitmen in terms of yg bertanggungjawab so semua jln dipermudahkan Allah SWT

Siti Harisun Said said...

Hmmm.....

Short & Sweet!!! :)

.heidee nor. said...

same here.

doesn't take long either before we both decided to get married.

between, i have one post in my draft with the same title like yours. cuma plan to publish it next year on our next anniversary...

what a coincidence!

naja said...

wah..ur story sama la dgn i..3 bln kenal dah btunang & after 4 months kawen..hehe, tp pertemuan kami diaturkan oleh my auntie & it's cinta pandang pertama..anyway semoga hepi & bbahagia sll

::Ida:: said...

yana, kiena, rizaros, ilyannur, suzie, siti : pendek kata, i had to kiss a few frogs before i met my prince charming.. hehehe... yee.. they are all frogs :P

heidee : really?? hehehe.. i ingat nak letak how i met your father.. tapi mcam tak kena pulak :P

::Ida:: said...

naja : wahh.. love at first sight eh? hehe.. congratulations!!! and happiness to you too!! :)

Jiji said...

Sweet! Tapi i rasa ntah ntah your hubby duduk depan entrace tu semata-mata scout u makan ke tak ..

cuba tanya.. tah tah dia minat kat u dulu tak?

Unaizah said...

Owhhhh, so sweeeet!!! Semoga berkekalan ke akhir hayat and bahagia selalu..

*Idina* said...

Sangat sweet okay ida!!! I likee!!

ella said...

this is so sweet.. semoga berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat. :)

littlehumblelynn said...

ini betul2 dikatakan jodoh!!bagai pinang dibelah dua..smg happy smp bila2!!

intan said...

kak ida! so sweeeetttttt. fyi, u suit each other, wish it may remains forever..amin!

::Ida:: said...

jiji : hehehe.. i rasa dia nak ngorat i dulu.. tapi i slalu dengan konco2 i.. segan kot :P

unaizah, idina, ella , humbleynn, intan : hehehe thanks all. i aminkan doa2 you guys.. insyallah kekal hingga ke akhir hayaattt... :)

mar!ahaf!z said...

happened just like that kan?
:)

i tak bercinta pun ngan hubby i.. sebulan je kenal terus propose. giler, parents dia dtg rumah tak cakap dgn me.. mula2 marah jgk.. tp pastu ok je.. :)

Nana said...

so sweet la kak ida...semoga kekal smpai akhir hayat...

::Ida:: said...

maria : kan? i couldnt believe it either! but i believe in fate :) my parents pon terkejut sbb i told them his parents nak datang melawat. skali mak dia terus arrange bape dulang hantaran bagai. my dad was dumbfounded! hahaha.. lepas parents dia balik, my dad like 'ida, dont dont do this to me again!' hahaha.. again dad? tak dah kot :P

nana : thanks nanaa!! aminnn :)

Azlida Alias said...

wahhh...so sweet...Ida, kalau buat novel pun best nih!! Anyway, will pray 4 ur happiness with ur little family =)

Xiet_Enigma said...

Alhamdulillah you have a blissful marriage... you know, dulu2 mak2 kita slalu ckap blajar btol2 jgn bercinta pastu dah abes blaja kerja elok2 pastu br kawen...

tp apa yg i slalu dgr skang dr kawan2, klu dah kerje lg susah nk carik jodoh.kat opis, majority dah berpunya/dah kawen, yg single plak, kekadang xkenan....klu kat U dl, bnyk sket plihan.... hai, ada2 je kan.... kesimpulan, jodoh masing2...ye tak...

::Ida:: said...

azlida: hehehe.. tunggu publisher datang approach nak buat novel :P nway thank you .. and aminn :)

xiet : soo true!!! i pon ingat time keje ni mmg susah la nak dpt teman den.. tapi dah jodohkan... alhamdulillah... :)

dona::rose said...

Awww Ida. That's so sweet. So happy for you!

Mummylicious said...

i have to LOL and comment at this. we have so much in common la ida. my hubby name (and still is called) Zul. and we got married July '08, engaged also Feb '08. He met my dad Nov'07. We got together Aug'07. Only main diff...im not preggy with 2nd baby yet! muhahaha

mar!ahaf!z said...

haha ur dad plak terkejut ek..

::Ida:: said...

dona : thanks dona :)

mummylicious : 1st of all where have you been??? kinda miss you blogging and PP. how is she doing?

and ommaigodd!! LOL! we have indeed so much in common!!!!! i think PP pon was born sometime in october right? hehehehe..hariz too!!!
about the 2nd baby tu, well,it was unplanned . so did the rest! :P

maria : haha. biasa la mak2 ni dah tau dah.. ayah2 ni kurang sket :P